Well I answered your question
(it was the no, but... part of it)
and i have been in love, but i chose to pursue that certain girl, and didn't fall in love till we spent many months together. I know because I chose to pursue women and not men.
Yes, girls and boys fit together, and boys and boys don't.
But I asked whether you were gay or not because if you're not, how could you possibly know. I'm not homosexual myself, but my sister is, and she didn't CHOOSE to be the way she is.
Look at it this way. I'm sure you've liked someone or maybe even been in love at some point in your life. Did you choose who you liked/loved, or did it just happen?
no, but that does not change the fact that girls and boys fit together, and boys and boys do not.
Think of it this way, if all men and women were gay there would be no survival of our race, therefore it is understood that to be straight is instinct, and to be gay can not be instinct since it is in direct opposition to being straight.